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Abstract

Have you blown it with your kids?

"Discover 10 Actions You Can Take To Earn Back Your Children's Trust...
Guaranteed!"

Don't make the mistakes this Bad Dad did!

"Revealed for the first time: How to reverse years of damage to your
relationship with your children? Read
Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust to discover how to save the most
important relationships in your life!"

Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regain Trust

"... you won't be able to stop reading ..."

David Perdew held nothing back from his life experiences and miraculous
turnaround in his ebook Bad Dad. If you are a parent, as I am, you
won't be able to stop reading David's story. If you desire to improve
your family life, read Bad Dad and apply it everyday. You and your kids
will be glad you did.

Roger Carr
EveryDayGiving

Date:
From: David Perdew

Dear Friend:

y the end of this letter, you will know how to change your
relationships with your children. Never again will you see them as the
problem. That's because there's a solution -- a solution that brings
love, respect and joy back to your family.

It's found in the 10 secrets of Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust.

Discover why this first -- and some say most important -- key
is so-o-o simple, but so-o-o hard to implement. . .

You might not approve of this secret Key. . .but that just may
be the problem, too. . .

Find out what is absolutely necessary to ensuring that you and
your children are the biggest winners in the long run. . .

Discover the single most important relationship required to
foster love and trust with your kids. . .

The fastest way to kill trust between a child and a parent is
revealed in the fifth key. . .and how to avoid it

The three most incredible prerequisites for building lasting
relationships with your kids are unveiled in this key. . .

Discover the secrets to correcting your biggest character
flaw. . .and how to turn that flaw to your advantage. . .

Uncover the one key to repairing the damage caused by years of
denial and pain. . .

Come to grips with the most difficult attitude change required
to build a healthy, responsible adult. . .

The most compelling reason to step up and embrace your role as
a model for healthy interaction is unveiled in the final secret. . .

But I'm ahead of myself already.

First, I want to tell you a story about a really bad day in my life.
You may relate -- if not to the details, probably the feelings. I hope
you never go through this.

I thought telling the children that you and their mom were divorcing
had to be the mother of all bad days, but it wasn't even close. It was
just the beginning of the worst days to come.

This is how it happened to me.

Gathered in the kitchen, my wife and three kids sat around the table.
With a shaky voice I whispered, "Your mother and I can't live together
anymore because we don't love each other."

My youngest son climbed into my lap as the two older children stood
around with tears streaming down their face. He smiled, begging for
approval, and said, "But you still love me, don't you, daddy?"

As we both burst into tears, I squeezed him to my chest tightly.

I didn't know how to help him. At 4 years old, he was feeling the
trauma of his family.

For years, the tension in the house had been so thick you could slice
it. My anger and resentment toward my wife had been building while the
kids tiptoed around the edge to avoid the abyss that we called our
marriage.

It was like living in a war zone. And they were the orphaned victims.

This, I thought, is the worst failure of my life. I can't make this
marriage work and I don't have a clue how to help these kids feel
better.

All I knew is that my life was crumbling. My own pain was overwhelming.
And that's all I could think about.

Like most young Dads, I had no training in parenting. The most
important job in my life, raising my children, was a trial-and-error
effort at best.

After the divorce, I was no longer in the house. I was a failure. My
kids didn't need to be around a failed dad, I thought, so I only showed
up only when required -- school functions, ball games, and the
occasional movie.

Emotionally, I had checked out. Work became my identity.

That's when the real trouble started.

As the kids grew into teenagers, we grew further apart. They no longer
wanted to be around me. At the same time, they built great anger and
resentment -- after all, they'd learned that from the best.

But anger and resentment turns to self-destruction. I watched as my
kids began having trouble in school, sneaking out of the house, and
displaying angry, disrespectful outbursts toward their mom.

The young son who wanted so much to be loved would find himself in drug
rehab at 16.

That's a parent's worst nightmare: A child on drugs. If you don't
understand why you must change your life after checking your child into
drug rehab, then you're not ready for Bad Dad. Sorry to have wasted
your time. But if you feel a little twinge of recognition in your gut,
or you want to check your behavior patterns to ensure you're not making
the same mistakes, keep reading.

Is this you? Your brother or sister? A close friend maybe?

Something is missing in your child's life. Chances are it's you.

Listen, I understand. I feel your pain, believe me. You're scared,
angry and hopeless. You have the best of intentions to have a pleasant
conversation and a peaceful interaction with your kids, but soon you're
arguing again.

Hurtful things are said and the gulf between you becomes even wider.

If that rings true for you, it's time for a new plan! Your old plan
doesn't work any longer. The first was to ignore it hoping the pain
would go away. That didn't work so well. The next plan seemed logical:
If talking only drives the kids further away, then don't talk. Maybe if
we just wait until they're grown, and try it again then. . .

Another bad idea.

Bad relationships fester with venom creating a cancer that robs us of
our joy and our right minds. No longer can we make judgments that are
clear and confident. Every conversation is a calculated risk. Even the
small talk is precarious.

No one likes living in this situation. And no one is in control. But
everyone thinks they are.

Before you run off screaming, "Oh my God, it's hopeless!" let me give
you three reasons to stay with me here:

Reason one. My sweet daughter rarely talks about the days when she
avoided me because of my explosive temper--it's still too painful. But
now she says:

I live an enriched, fulfilling, happy, fun life and Dad taught me how
to do that. He taught me to take what you have, a life that you hate,
and turn it into a dream come true. It may have taken me awhile but I'm
here now, and he gets the credit.

Reason two. My oldest son, who always tried to tell me the story he
thought I wanted to hear, says:

Throughout my life, my dad was always the last one to know. I would
avoid telling him things, because I was afraid of disappointing him.
What I eventually did was leave him out all together. It was when I
took my beautiful bride-to-be to meet him thatI finally understood.
After all of those years, I was always afraid of the wrong thing. Not
including him ultimately hurt us both.

Reason three. My youngest son, who didn't spend a night with me for
nearly six years, says:

There were some times when I really didn't feel comfortable around you
because I didn't know what you were going to do next. You were just so
angry and that scared me. The only way that I felt I could get over the
hurt of it was to make myself not care and the drugs really helped with
that. I know that I have done, and still do, some things to really
upset you, and make you angry but you still tell me you love me. And
that is it. That is what a good father does. No matter what, you will
love me and you make sure that I know that.

Fifteen years ago, I would have given anything to just have my children
enjoy spending the night with me. Today, we enjoy each other. . .ALL
THE TIME!

How about you? Are you getting the best from your kids? Are you giving
them the best you have? Are you afraid you're making too many mistakes?
Do you wonder if you're "scarring them for life?"

That was me too, sure that whatever I did was wrong. And you know what?
Most of the time it was. Do you know why? I hadn't found these simple
keys to raising healthy, happy children. If fact, these secrets will
work in any relationship -- at home or work.

Did you feel that? That little chill up your spine was HOPE!

Yes, someone else has felt exactly like you. And yes, he did live to
tell about it. And yes, I'm the guy -- the original Bad Dad.

Look at these two pictures below.

Before on the left shows my angry, depressed children with their angry,
depressed dad at one of the most wonderful locations in the world --
DisneyWorld.

Before learning the 10 secrets and applying them

15 years later, the 10 Keys rebuilt our lives

After 15 years of struggle, honesty, hard work, undying love and
commitment, and a rock solid devotion to the 10 secrets contained in
Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust, my kids are shown in the right
picture sitting on my back porch, loving life and their dad.

We express our love and caring, freely, openly and sincerely. We've
built bonds that will never be broken. We trust each other to do the
right thing, not always the easy thing.

And we enjoy respect.

When both of my sons call from different parts of the world where they
live with their wives, they say, "I love you, Dad" before they hang up.
My daughter brings joy and laughter into the house when she drops in
between trips to Costa Rica and other places her adventurous life takes
her. It's a wonderful moment -- the windows of our country house rattle
with joyful laughter. And I beam with pride at the woman she's become.

How about you? Have you heard, "I love you" lately from your kids?
Wouldn't you like to?

There's no magic pill, no book you can read that will fix your
relationships with your kids overnight. I'm sorry. But that's a fact.
That's true for Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust, too. But reading
this story and using the nuggets of eternal truth captured in these
pages will help you find, over time, the very same happiness I
discovered.

There's a story of two hunters who were lost in the woods during a
wintry blizzard. Cold and despondent, they felt great hope and joy when
they stumbled upon an old camp shack with smoke rising from the
chimney. At last, someone who could help them get out of the blinding
storm.

The old man inside welcomed, warmed them by the fire, and drew them a
map to the main highway. When the two hunters examined it closely, they
became aggitated. "It's 10 miles back to the road," one said.

"And it was 10 miles in, too," the old man responded.

If you're standing, lost, in the middle of the woods, you need a map.
Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust is your map to a successful future
with your kids. The 10 keys will show you how to love your children
again -- even if you don't like them very much right now.

Today, you're just 10 miles into the woods. Tomorrow, you'll be much
further in. I'll warm you by the fire, and I've drawn a map for you.

Without the map, you're still lost! With it, you're still 10 miles into
the woods, but you know how to get out.

After discovering these 10 keys, I thought of you! Really!

Actually, I was a little worried for you.

No, I didn't see your face or know your name, but I knew what you were
feeling. And I knew that without Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust --
or some other clear coaching from someone who's been there and done
that, you would continue floundering through your parenting years
missing what's really important.

And my biggest concern? You will give up! That's what I wanted to do.

I'm so worried that you'll make one of the biggest mistakes of your
life -- not claiming your Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust today.
Why? What will you lose?

Worst case scenario? You won't learn the secret to
communicating effectively with your children -- they'll be gone for
good. . .

If you wait any longer, it will be too late to reverse the
troubles you're seeing on the horizon. . .

You'll miss the one secret that will ease the tension between
your and your kids so you can begin talking again. . .

All your relationships may become poisoned by the constant
stress of your out-of-control life unless you apply the most important
simple secret of the three S's. . .

Laughter and joy will disappear from your house forever if you
don't implement this all-important change in yourself. . .

Eventually, all hope evaporates and you'll give up unless you
follow the simple keys. . .

I can tell you, doing the real-life research for this book was as much
fun as pounding my hand with a hammer. After a while, the pain becomes
the only thing you know, and your biggest worry is that someone will
take the hammer away. Without the hammer, what will become of you?

Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust shows you a way to stop the pain
and replace it with a better experience, the experience of a joyful
family that you deserve.

That's why Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust is so important. After
reading it and applying the secrets in this book, you'll enjoy
parenting again.

I promise! Absolutely guarantee it. And I also guarantee that it won't
change overnight, so that's why I'm giving you a 1-year, no-questions
asked, money-back guarantee. Read it, apply it, love parenting again,
or get your money back. Just like it did for me, I believe that this,
too, will work for you. Check back with me in one year. Mark it on your
calendar. I want to know. If you haven't improved your family life,
I'll return your small investment -- no questions asked.

What have you got to lose? Maybe the wife and children?

I'm taking all the risk. And happy to do it.

Why? I'm going to say this quickly because I don't want to scare you.
This is the most important investment we can make together -- so much
so that it has become the Bad Dad mission. Here's a few reasons why?

Helping you helps me and everyone else in the world. Imagine one
generation of children all over the world who were nurtured, loved,
healthy and prosperous. What would that world look like?

Crime would go down. . .

Prisons would empty. . .

Welfare would become obsolete. . .

Hunger would disappear. . .

Fear would be unheard of. . .

Respect would flourish among all men and women. . .

This is just silly, right? This sounds like World Peace and that will
never happen, right? Wrong! One person, one child, one hand, one smile.
. .And it began with you.

The Bad-Dad community is growing. More of us are concerned and doing
something about it each day. Claim your copy of Bad Dad: 10 Keys to
Regaining Trust below.

We'll keep you posted with the latest trends and topics in positive
parenting as well as start a dialog with you about your greatest fears,
uncertainties and doubts. We'll point you in the right direction. And
together we'll give this community a voice to be reckoned with.

Peace, one child at a time.

That's not too much to ask. We -- and our children most of all --
deserve it.

If you rebuild your relationships with your children, they will be
happier, more productive citizens. It's the most important job you can
do toward building World Peace. But you do it at home -- one on one,
slowly, with passion and commitment.

Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust is your guide map through the
blinding blizzard of broken relationships. Yes, you might be able to
find your way home on your own. But, why take the chance?

To quote the Talmud, "If not now, when?"

"All fathers need to read this book..."

"All fathers need to read this book, whether they think they're a 'Bad
Dad' or not. David's courageous honesty about his own past mistakes
should serve as a wake-up call to all parents about the ways in which
our actions affect our children. Awareness is the first step to
improvement, and David beautifully demonstrates just how possible it is
to heal the father-child bond, if only the desire to do so exists
first."

Wendy Betterini
WingsForTheHeart

"Never too late to be a wonderful dad!"

It's never too late to be a wonderful dad! That's the inspiring message
in David Perdew's painfully honest story of his disasters, gradual
recovery and ultimate triumph in the world of modern fatherhood. This
book is sure to be of great help and encouragement to every dad who's
ever struggled in his relationship with a son or daughter and I'm more
than happy to recommend it to my readers.

Bob Collier, Publisher of the Parental Intelligence Newsletter
parental-intelligence

"Honest and inspiring book "

My partner has suffered from his relationship with his dad, which
turned sour as they grew apart and his dad was stuck in a vision of the
world, last updated in the late seventies.
Together we have 4 young boys now and if there is one thing we don't
want, it's to see history repeat itself. Thank you David for your
honest and inspiring book. It will help us in more than one ways to
bridge the gaps between the generations!
Patricia Ritsema van Eck
my-happy-heart

"An e-book like yours may help them feel less alone..."

As a Special Education Consultant, I frequently talk to parents who
feel guilty about how they have handled things with their special needs
children. Even though they may have been doing the best they could at
the time, they still have regrets. An e-book like yours may help them
feel less alone and encourage them in their efforts to be the dad or
mom they want to be.
Sharon A. Mitchell
autismsite.ca

"Thank you, David, for your gift of courage."

Davids Bad Dad ebook seemed an interesting and worthwhile premise.
Having someone lay the groundwork for instigating change would make
change that much easier. This could be good, I thought. But not once
did I think his words would apply to me.

I was wrong. When I read somehow, from a very early age, I believed
that I needed to achieve great things and stand out, thoughts of my
father came to mind. A sob welled up from my heart. My throat tightened
in that scratchy way while tears ran down my cheek. I saw a younger me
looking at my fathers straight-A report cards while he reminded me that
I didnt try hard enough.

I never compared myself with over-achievers. I didnt spend hours
studying to be a straight-A student or get perfect SAT scores. But I
might as well have because deep inside I felt I wasnt good enough.

Over the years Ive struggled with self-confidence, forgiving myself for
many of my actions, and forgiving other people for the hurt I felt. In
all that time Ive never forgiven my father. It's taken me years to
learn that I cant change someone else. My father raised me to the best
of his ability. I know he loves me. The way I reacted was my choice.
Ive finally forgiven him, and now when I say I love him, I wont be
holding back.

Thank you, David, for your gift of courage. Your willingness to change
your life helps me to change mine.

Nanette Littlestone
wordsofpassion

What will you gain?

Share this book with your family. Read it, talk about your experiences,
and follow the exercises to create an opening to heal the damage of the
past.

And what if you're a mom? If you're frustrated or confused about the
emotions you feel dealing with a Bad Dad, this book will help you. If
you have the same tendencies - this applies to you as well. There's
hope. It's called Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust.

What's it worth to hear your child say, "I love you!"

Priceless, right?

You could spend thousands on therapy. (And you may need to!) But read
this book first to learn how to progress quickly, without wasting time
and money.

There's plenty of parenting books available on Amazon. A quick search
on Amazon for parenting reveals 66,804 titles. But I guarantee you that
none of them will walk you through the experience of reinventing
yourself and discarding your Bad Dad ways.

I spent thousands of dollars trying to figure out how to repair my
relationship with therapy, counselors, books -- you name it. But I
needed to learn to crawl up from the bottom I'd created first. I wish
I'd had someone in the same situation that I could talk to--another Bad
Dad.

That's why I wrote Bad Dad, to offer you hope, to show you how to be
honest and open, respectful and non-judgemental. Bad Dad condenses my
expensive lessons into an experience you can relate to.
If you have to spend $30,000 to rebuild your relationships, I guarantee
you it's worth every nickel. But start with this book and save yourself
much time and money.

Here's what you get when you claim your copy of Bad Dad:

Instant download of Bad Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust so
you can begin your transformation just minutes after you order and
start on your path to regaining your family's trust. . .

Step-by-step account of how I created the change in my life
that brought my kids back. . .

Introduction to communities and resources online that support
you in making your own transformations. . .

A free preview of Bad Dad that you can send to your friends
or others in need. . .

Free subscription to the Bad Dad blog to get the latest
information as we get it . . .

Ocassional free special reports as they become available on
parenting and self-improvement. . .

Continuous online coaching in the form of eCourses. . .

And, of course, the special bonuses below. . .

Best of all, you get a new chance to regain the trust you've lost. You
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To claim your copy of
Bad-Dad: 10 Keys to Regaining Trust
just click the image below

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To your success,

David R. Perdew

David Perdew,

P.S. Remember my daughter's words:

My dad will tell you he doesn't think he tried hard enough, that he
didn't do enough that he wasn't a good dad for a long time. But who he
is now has helped me become who I am today. I live an enriched,
fulfilling, happy, fun life and he taught me how to do that. He taught
me how to take what you have, a life that you hate, and turn it into
your dream come true. It may have taken me awhile but I'm here now, and
he gets the credit.
That brings tears to my eyes, but, of course, there's credit for
everyone just because we all were willing to try again.

P.P.S. Remember, our supply of the free bonuses is limited. I can only
guarantee you'll receive them if you order right away. So don't delay.
Act now.

Order Your Copy and Download It Today

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